As an adoptee myself, and the parent of two adopted children, I find the topic of adoption records a messy one.  The rights of two or more individuals collide in this situation.

Privacy of Adoption Records

After all, the birth parents, especially those that delivered before the 1980s, were guaranteed privacy and the whole process was messy and embarrassing.  Later on, with a greater understanding of the effects adoption has on kids, adoptions became more open.  How to balance those needs has become an ongoing battle between states and the people who wish to find their birth families.

Several states have dealt with the issue by providing copies of certain documents online.  It is possible to get non-identifying information from just about every state, but identifying information is much more difficult.

Starting Your Adoption Records Search

Original birth certificates, usually obtainable online, are a good place to start a search.  Original copies of adoption records can sometimes also be acquired, but they are much harder.  For those it can pay to get a private search company involved.  This is one of those times when geographic distance can create a great deal of trouble for the searcher.

Looking at the issue from both the side of a mother and an adoptee myself, I am torn.  The services provided online to help searchers are great.  Professional and dedicated individuals will, granted for a fee, dig up all relevant records in a remarkably short period of time.

Adoption Records: A Moral Dilemma

The question no longer revolves around whether one can find anything, but rather whether one should search.  For those who do want to try and dig up their roots, professional online court records search companies are a real boon.

Remember that adoption court records pertaining specifically to your adoption are only the beginning of the process.  Once you have a name, you will still need to track down the correct individual and then, perhaps the hardest part of the process, decide if you are going to initiate a meeting.  I wish you the very best of luck on your journey.

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