After years of marriage, your husband is acting a little shady and you begin to wonder if he is cheating. You don’t want to accuse him and you don’t want to hire a private eye. However, you can do a background check in the privacy of your own home to see if your husband is cheating or is just changing.

10 signs that your husband may be cheating:

1. Your husband’s wardrobe takes an unexpected change in style. The same thing goes for underwear. Men who cheat will often start buying new underwear.
2. Your husband comes home from work freshly showered or smelling like a different cologne or soap.
3. Friends start calling with “emergencies” on a more regular basis.
4. Your husband credit card/bank statements start going to the office.
5. Your husband starts going out-of-town more often than usual without a change in job or money.
6. Friends and co-workers act “strange” or uncomfortable around you.
7. Someone hangs up when you answer the phone.
8. Your husband starts a fight with you so he can storm out of the house to “cool off” for a few hours.
9. Your sex life takes a sudden down turn in frequency.
10. Your husband comes home smelling of another woman’s perfume.

How a background check can help:
Most likely, if he is cheating you are not the first woman he has cheated on. The chances are he has cheated on many other women prior to you. In addition, if he is breaking your sacred marriage vow, who knows what else he is lying to you about?

The only way to know what this man is up to is to become your own private eye and dig up the dirt. Your husband may be innocent but the only way you will know for sure is if you look up the facts for yourself. So start digging and see what you can turn up.

What you need to discover the truth with a background check
To begin your search, you will need to a credit card or a PayPal account, an Internet connection, and a place to read the information you find.

I suggest you do this alone. If you do discover your husband is cheating, you will not want your children around to see that. Trust me on this one. As a teen, I was there when my mom discovered my cheating day and it was just not right. If you need someone around, have a friend but keep the kids away.

Digging up the truth is simple and easy. Type in your husband’s name and his history just pops right up. Marriage records, divorce records, criminal background check, social security records and everything else you can imagine is right in front of you.

You can quickly see all his “hidden” phone numbers, properties, credit cards, and heaven forbid if he has got her an apartment! Start your cheating husband background check today and maybe you will find that he is innocent.

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If you have young children and need to go back to work, the only way to ensure that the nanny you use has never been in trouble is to pull a background report.  Police are reluctant to discuss criminal cases with the public.  Unless there has been a very public trial, most such criminals remain hidden from plain sight.

Nanny Surveillance
You can chose to hire someone to watch your kids without running a background check and place hidden cameras all around, but by the time you watch a video it could be too late.  Children are not capable of defending themselves against adults, which is why we, as parents, must protect them ourselves.

The best way to accomplish this is to get your potential nanny to fill out an application that includes their name and social security number.  The easiest way to search for someone is by using the Social Security Number, but it isn’t mandatory.  A name can be searched for as well as a number, and while it might take a bit longer, it is just as easy.

Running the Background Search
Pick a good search company; one that doesn’t falsely advertise free reports and then still wants to charge your card.  Apply for an annual membership; if you are looking for a nanny you will want to run several names, not just one.  Enter the name and, if you have it, the social security number of the individual in question.  In a matter of seconds you will have your reply.

It feels good to know that you are protecting your children to the best of your ability.   When hiring people to work with your family, it is always best to err on the side of caution.  Get a complete background search done in mere minutes, and relieve at least one worry from your mind.

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